Interview

• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  Uhm I guess experiencing the finite line between life and death working in an ICU. Which has give me a more open and opportunistic outlook on what life has to offer as a whole. I’d rather be uncomfortable and experience/learn about things unknown, over a monotonous existence of a comfortability.
• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  I’m super sarcastic, and know that I will approach and respect every relationship regardless of it being: a friend, fuck bud, client, partner, what-have-you - with a none-judgmental eye or biase. We all have a past, whether we like it or not. I’m only here to experience who you decide to present to me and not engage in this self deprecating gay stereotype of idle hearsay/gossip.
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  Hmm gym, some form of artistic expression or DIY project, any athletic venture outside: hiking, skiing, soccer, a 3 am walk along the esplanade - spontaneous adventures. Late night road trips to wherever life takes me. I definitely appreciate experiencing activities or places I’ve never been to or done before.
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  None lmao my diet consists of a one-a-day multivitamin and junk food lmao and fitness.. it varies depending on schedule and whether or not I’m sleeping lol
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  I think I have a Buddhist sensibility and A kind of wiser outlook on life. Life, for me is too sort to be judgmental and bitter or even to be lead by ego and biase.
  
  I would describe my “lifestyle” as actively pursuing a daily regiment of the betterment, of who I am as a person holistically. While striving to make a more-positive impact on society as a whole, through long and short term goals in public health and research.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  Curiosity, and self-expression. Also living life by these two words: tenacity and gratitude.. Tenacity is what keeps me focused on bettering me every day, and gratitude keeps me humble and none-judgmental
• What is your ‘niche’?
  I would say I’m weird? I like to question social norms and actively immerse myself in “difference” let’s just say I’m not your typical Boston queen stereotype and proud of it
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  Well any and everything...having worked in couple Trauma ICUs I’ve learned to appreciate what life hands me and am open to what it has to offer as well. I’m confident in who I am as a person so holding an open dialogue about anything is chill with me 😊✌🏽
• What do you do for fun?
  Gym, soccer, down hill ski race, hike, museums, movies, cook, hang with friends, take spontaneous walks along the esplanade, take spontaneous road trips, paint/draw I’m open to pretty much any new experiences
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  A deeper understanding of self... and appreciation for it as well. I’m certainly not the best looking on here so that’s out of the question for sure... but I feel like I’ve developed a more mindful understanding of my own reality...that first internalizes the days experiences which then allows me to act, rather then instantly reacting.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  I barely travel maybe 2 times a year unfortunately. But that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t love to!! I would totally travel every week if I could I’m just limited fiscally ie: loans, rent, food etc
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  I work in a medical and trauma ICU unit in two separate hospitals in Boston. Which in all honesty has only emphasized a stronger personality and confidence in the ability to analyze what truly matters and whats just noise.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  There’s nothing I can’t live without except food, water and air lol ... so the basics I guess? Everything else is unnecessary.
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  Being able to observe a level of patience, empathy and understanding toward others who might experience the world differently then most.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  The ability to know that attractive is attractive period. And understand that the biases people inherent are false narratives we accept as truth about others before even getting to know who they actually are.
  
  Yet, how are we going to know who they actually are when we've been told to avoid and be afraid of them?
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I’m undoubtedly reserved and shy when it comes to initially meeting people for the first time. After awhile I become more comfortable with the you I’m almost annoyingly sarcastic and witty. I love using sarcasm and wit to question social norms and behaviors while people watching and conversing.