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Dear RentMen visitors, TopherStone chose to answer 12 interview questions that were last updated on 26 May 2018

Interview

  • What do you do for fun?
    Off-roading. Skiing. Disneyland trips. Avid anime watcher. Attend local drag shows. Hand out cookies in the castro in a jock strap on Thanksgiving and Christmas.

    Serve my community.
  • What makes you stand out from the crowd?
    That will be obvious within the first five minutes of meeting me. I have learned I am not ordinary in any sense of that word. I am, I'm told, rather magnetic.
  • What are your greatest personal traits?
    An unbounded sense of compassion and empathy, and the ability to step into the viewpoints of others.
  • What is your ‘niche’?
    Kink facilitation and reconnecting couples with their sexual selves.
  • How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
    I have been a rather large globetrotter in my life. For the moment, I'm enjoying adapting to San Francisco and NorCal. I spend a lot of time at Tahoe, Yosemite, and Disneyland. Despite having driven past LA 20 times or more, I've only ever truly been there once... and that was for dick. And leather shopping.
  • What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
    My goal is to get to a rather beefy 245 pounds, so I basically work, eat, go to the gym, fuck, and watch anime. If my life doesn't sound exciting to you, join me for 24 hours of it, it'll change your mind.
  • What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
    I'm a Wisconsin-born redneck jeeper with a basset hound, a software engineer, an ex-DJ, a go-go dancer that once slept with George Michael (just like the rest of London), an avid kinkster, a good student, and a good teacher.

    I have an unusual past that's led me to be an unusual present.
  • What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
    I'm a poly softie that leaps heart-first into relationships with people. If you never expose your true self, nobody will ever truly know who you are. Nothing teaches you that the majority of people are truly good like living your life without defenses.
  • If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
    The story of leaving the US at 25 to live in 8 countries before landing in San Francisco to a new life, and the crazy shit that brought me to this moment.
  • What should others absolutely know about you?
    I expect people to be present. If I wanted a dick without a brain I have a fuck machine; if I wanted a hole that couldn't feel anything I've got a milker. Be in the moment.
  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    I have a surprising breadth of kink interests, and genuinely love acting as a kind of sexual therapist. I help tops to bottom, bottoms to top, do couples scenes where I'm often fully dressed and directing, enjoy edging people for its own sake, and have a wide variety of kinks to introduce people to. I'm what's commonly referred to as a "service top". I'm vers/switch, and am comfortable in just about any position in the bedroom.
  • Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
    My basset hound, Daisy. My jeep, Caitlyn. Crunchyroll. My dungeon... and someone to put in it.