I want the ideal balance of intensity & tenderness
* kissing throughout
* warming up with caressing, muscle worship, oral (giving) & rimming (both)
* start slow & build intensity. I love porn-fantasy sex but have limited sexual experience so can only handle so much.
* dirty talk throughout to build the fantasy
* partner takes the lead & changes things up. Always reading my body language. Breaks as needed
* saving time for aftercare: cuddling, kissing & talking are essential for me to recover from intense sex & make a connection